Avoid repeatedly initializing the shared memory data when creating the child
thread in lib-pthread or lib-wasi-threads.
Add shared memory lock when accessing some fields of the memory instance
if the memory instance is shared.
Init shared memory's memory_data_size/memory_data_end fields according to
the current page count but not max page count.
Add wasm_runtime_set_mem_bound_check_bytes, and refine the error message
when shared memory flag is found but the feature isn't enabled.
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