add a validator for aot module (#3995)

- Add AOT module validation to ensure memory constraints are met
- Enable AOT validator in build configuration and update related source files

core/config.h

@@ -702,4 +702,8 @@
 #define WASM_ENABLE_SHRUNK_MEMORY 1
 #endif
 
+#ifndef WASM_ENABLE_AOT_VALIDATOR
+#define WASM_ENABLE_AOT_VALIDATOR 0
+#endif
+
 #endif /* end of _CONFIG_H_ */