add a validator for aot module (#3995)

- Add AOT module validation to ensure memory constraints are met
- Enable AOT validator in build configuration and update related source files

build-scripts/config_common.cmake

@@ -610,4 +610,8 @@ if (WAMR_BUILD_SHRUNK_MEMORY EQUAL 1)
 else ()
   add_definitions (-DWASM_ENABLE_SHRUNK_MEMORY=0)
   message ("     Shrunk memory disabled")
+endif()
+if (WAMR_BUILD_AOT_VALIDATOR EQUAL 1)
+  message ("     AOT validator enabled")
+  add_definitions (-DWASM_ENABLE_AOT_VALIDATOR=1)
 endif ()